Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Friendsville: Population ME

I've been dating a new guy who is nice, cute, and we get along really well. BUT...I think we might be in or heading to the friends zone. We hang out but nothing happens and by nothing I mean it's like hanging out with my best girlfriend. We watch movies eat food and chat but that's it. We don't hug or kiss when we first see each other the only time we do kiss is when one of us is leaving and it's a quick kiss. Now because of this I'm starting to think of him as a friend so there's two things that could happen.

1. I tell him this and he agrees and we stay friends.
2. I tell him and he does not agree and is really upset

Talking with the BFF about it she seems to think that maybe he's thinking friends too. I mean a month of dating and he doesn't make a move makes you wonder. I'm ok with being friends so I really hope that this works out and he feels the same way.

4 comments:

Gaby, held on by wires. said...

yeah.. I think that if there's no sparks flying from either of you then it's best to just take the pressure off both of you and just say you're friends and continue to hang out and have fun like you're already doing. Good luck!

Anonymous said...

I'd talk to him if I was you. I mean, I'd hate not knowing which direction things are going.

jessica maria said...

Totally talk to him - because it does seem strange that nothing's happened in a month.

Ginny said...

Yea I think talking to him about it is the best thing. Maybe I'll have a new friend and we can laugh about this someday.